Patience is the key when it comes to drying
Many parents look forward to the day when their child goes to the bathroom independently and is finally diaper-free. But how can you wean the child off the diaper? It is particularly important not to start the "potty training" too early. This is what the professional association of pediatricians (BVKJ) points out on its website "kinderaerzte-im-netz.de". Because if certain physical processes are not yet mature, wetting is also encouraged during the day.
Children must be able to classify physical sensations
As soon as the children are a little bigger, many parents look forward to finally no longer having to change diapers. But in order for a child to be able to manage without diapers at all, they have to be able to control the bladder and intestines. This ability cannot be influenced, because many urine processes have to be mature before urine and stool can be held safely.
“For an independent visit to the toilet or potty, your child has to learn to coordinate a number of physical and mental tasks. It has to familiarize itself with its body and its functions and draw up a plan for how to get to the toilet, ”says Dr. Monika Niehaus, member of the expert panel of the professional association of pediatricians (BVKJ). For this it is necessary that the child can concentrate and remember and understand the explanations of the parents, explains Niehaus.
Development runs at different speeds
Only at around two and a half to three years, children would have the ability to to be solved from a game and directed towards another activity - such as going to the toilet when urine or stool is required. From then on, it is possible that this “plan” will be carried out without being distracted by other things. According to the experts, this development step takes place at different speeds from child to child.
Pressure can lead to emptying disorders
Parents should under no circumstances exert pressure on their child and should not urge them to "potty training" at an early stage. Because if the child is not yet ready, emptying disorders could be favored, emphasizes the professional association. "Young children tend to hold back their stool and urine when using the toilet early," warns Dr. Never. It is therefore important to remain patient and wait until the child is able to get by without diapers.
Prepare dry with books and chamber pot
"Drying out" can be prepared by parents teaching the child from about one and a half years old words to describe emptying. The child can use this to point out the need to stool or urinate as soon as it is ready. It should also be explained in a child-friendly manner that this is a completely normal process and that all people and animals must empty themselves regularly, according to the expert advice.
Shortly before the second birthday, words for the toilet and the potty and their function could be learned. At this point, it was also possible to give the child their own chamber pot to practice emptying - be it with the help of a doll or by putting it on. Books on the subject would also be of interest to the children at that time.
It is important that the child is not forced to practice, emphasizes the professional association. But motivation can be built through praise. Likewise, the prospect of underwear instead of diaper often spurs children on - “as a privilege and a sign of aging,” the experts explain. (No)